Your faith, purity, character, honesty, and integrity are more meaningful to any good woman than all else you could offer her. Our culture might make you feel like good guys come out last – but it’s those good guys that we women want to spend the rest of our lives with.
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17 Lessons that men need to learn about women
- Women fall in love with words. Words communicate your intentions and why you do what you do with her. Which is why it is important for her to hear you say you love her. Verbalize affection.
- Women stay in love when your actions match your words. This is why she begins to doubt your verbalized affection if your actions are not consistent.
- Women dream revealing dreams and have insticts to protect themselves and their family. Sometimes God will communicate to your woman through dreams or strong insticts about the wrong you are doing or when danger is coming towards you or the children. Pay attention to her.
- If you want to love a woman long-term attend to her emotions. Money, gifts and your good physique might excite a woman for sometime, but ultimately the woman wants a companion, someone who will be responsible with and attend to her emotions.
- Women are actually not complicated. She wants the simple things in life: attention, respect, kindness and thoughtfulness.
- A hurt woman might push you to see if you will fight for her. Her pain makes her run away easily, she expects you to abandon her just like the others did. Show her you are different. Give her stability and assurance and it will help her heal.
- Women prefer to be dumped than to be led on and played with. She can handle the truth. Be courageous enough to tell her you are no longer interested in her instead of giving her false hopes. She would rather be hurt with the truth than to be kept with a lie.
- Women respond well to love and become shaken when neglected. A loved up woman responds back with love but when you make her insecure, she will become frustrated and withdraw.
- Women make love with their heart. Don’t expect great sex and regular love making from your wife if you don’t treat her right.
- Don’t always be quick to advise a woman. Sometimes all she needs is for you to listen and in talking with you, she will find the solutions from within.
- Being domineering and a male chauvinist will work against you. Respect is not demanded, respect is attracted when you treat her the way you want her to treat you. It is in your best interest to value her, the man who loves his woman loves himself.
- When you fail to protect your woman she will protect herself against you. Don’t be her enemy, she might love you but still put walls to keep you from hurting her.
- Women too want the joy of being there for someone. Allow her to be loved to you, to be there for you, and support you. A woman who doesn’t feel needed or that she adds no value sees no value in the relationship/marriage.
- Women too have goals, dreams, and a purpose. Don’t fight her growth.
- Women like to be watered. When you nourish her with love and care she will present herself to you in a pleasant way. A loved-up woman doesn’t nag or quarrel.
- Women hold back opening up when they feel unsafe or ridiculed. Give her a safe refuge in you where she can talk without feeling judged or made to feel petty.
- Women need clarity so that they invest. When you seem unsure she will not give you a hundred percent. Have no grey areas.
If I were, there would probably be a Nobel Prize waiting somewhere for me to collect. Sadly, this is not the case.
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But what I have made a habit of, is doing my best to learn about women. Whether it be through conversation or observation, there are many lessons to be learned that can help us in all areas of life – but particularly in love.
So, what are some lessons that we should pick up along our journey?
